Illustrious wrote:Alex, it isnt just a blame culture nowadays although you are right to some extent.
If you could go back to the 60's and ask someone what shinsplints were they'd look at you like you were johnny foreigner. Medical science has advanced in the last 40 years from the point that back then if your shins hurt, you were being a pansy to nowadays there being a reason WHY they hurt.
Sometimes there are reasons of safety as to why someone needs to stop. Dont just dismiss it straight off the bat as being a pansy.
Nowhere did I mention the people being pansies..
I'm saying people blame they're own failings far more readily on things that can be cured or fixed but would rather play the victim..
I know society has moved on and practically everyone has central heating, nobody uses a cobbler anymore you just buy a new pair of shoes., as a nation we are generally less robust than the equivalant generations of 20-30 years ago..
If I was to say to my kids we are walking to the shops there would be an outcry from them, therefore its easier just to leave them to their own devices and go ourselves.. (they're old enough to be left in the house by themselves before anyone calls for social services!!)...
I can see your point re shinsplints and how you may percieve what I said to be calling everyone a pansy, my point is more centred on the fact that people give up easier and maybe tend to play on it a bit more, because society has changed.
To give a non military example..
Up here a couple of years ago, a local council tried to change the rules of school football so that at half time the score went back to nil-nil.. This was so there would be no losers at half time and if the team losing in the second half went more than a goal down, they could bring on another player. I mean FFS!!!
Kids need to learn how to win and lose, how to take losing as part and parcel and yet be a gracious winner.. Yet these so called do-gooders want to treat everyone as though wrapped in cotton wool because we can't have a school football team losing a game, god-forbid I mean its only part of the game. A winner, aloser or maybe a draw (as long as its earnt!!)..
Do you see what I'm trying to say?
How can we expect kids growing up these days to cope with the rigours of military life, or even their own preparations for it, if all their lives they're being molly coddled like that? If they are going to accept that the score goes back to nil-nil at half time, why should the rest of their lives be any dofferent?