Can anyone give me some advice, my boyfriend has been trying to opt-out of CTC for 7 weeks and they won't let him leave. I am worried that he might do something stupid in his efforts to be released. Is there any legal angle I can persue to help him leave.
Thanks
Julia
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Nothing you can do your end.
I would think that you will find he may be saying he wants to leave to you but when he is back with the boys he is not saying what he is saying to you, this happens a lot.
Then if things are the same today there are set periods to opt out.
The one thing I would say is don't go getting yourself upset, things always sort themselves out just give it time.
I would think that you will find he may be saying he wants to leave to you but when he is back with the boys he is not saying what he is saying to you, this happens a lot.
Then if things are the same today there are set periods to opt out.
The one thing I would say is don't go getting yourself upset, things always sort themselves out just give it time.
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If you feel that your boyfriend is likely to do some harm to himself My only advice is to contact the Padre at CTRM and advise him of your worries,I,m sure Tony knows some way of making contact,He may be at a stage in his training were he feels he cant manage give him time to settle,but in the mean time think about the padre.
John_D
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At the end of the day any recruit in training at CTCRM can opt out during his training at any time. I find it hard to believe that he is being kept at CTC against his will!. The last thing his training team will want is someone who has decided that the Corps is not for them hanging around the rest of his troop.
I would advise you to speak with his parents. If he has itimated to them that he is being forced to remain in his troop, then I would suggest to them that they contact the C.O. 2IC or the Adjutant of CTCRM and voice their concerns.
Jim T
I would advise you to speak with his parents. If he has itimated to them that he is being forced to remain in his troop, then I would suggest to them that they contact the C.O. 2IC or the Adjutant of CTCRM and voice their concerns.
Jim T
Don't do anything stupid is the way to do it. There are rules to work to, and your boyfriend will have signed a binding contract which legal. If he truley wants to leave he simple needs to request to see his Wing Sgt/Maj.
It is also worth noting that most people who wish to leave do so either because they are falling behind and are under preasure from the training team to improve, won't keep up and have given in, or are under preasure from their girlfriend because they don't see him any more or that he is changing and she doesn't like it...
Lastly there is a building accross from the Sgt's Mess where the Welfare Office sits all day - he is even on the phone. If your boyfriend seriously wants out tell him to pop into the welfare.
It is also worth noting that most people who wish to leave do so either because they are falling behind and are under preasure from the training team to improve, won't keep up and have given in, or are under preasure from their girlfriend because they don't see him any more or that he is changing and she doesn't like it...
Lastly there is a building accross from the Sgt's Mess where the Welfare Office sits all day - he is even on the phone. If your boyfriend seriously wants out tell him to pop into the welfare.
