im currently menna be joining rt on 10thseptember and im got to the point wer i feel that i dont wanna just go jst yet, but i dunno wat to do im like 50/ 50 i wanna go asum days then other days i dont.
Am 18 and my gf is main reason if for stayin plus ive just passed my drivin test but i fink its a stupid reasons. or its just not tht im ready for im goin to face coz if i go and it gets tuff n im missin ome ill jst leave thts wat my afco sed most ppl do yesterday. they also recommended that i put it off for a couple of months till i m likee yerrr i really want this
i am coonsiderin joinin the reserves instead but is it possible to transfer over to the regulars?
any1 who can relate to this it would be much appreciated
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Make sure this is what you want mate before you go with it. You don't want to waste your time, or the Marines money. I advise speaking with some RM's and see if they can give you some outlook to the job. Im an older mate, 25, and let me tell you, don't let a girl hold you back. I've done that too many times. Do what YOU wanna do. It's not like your leaving the world mate, you'll still be around, and if she cares, she'll stick by your decesions.
This is a life altering career, that will more then likely change your perspective on everything so far in life. Just make sure you want to make that change. Wait a year or 2 if you want, and then come back and re-do the testing to be sure. In the end it's up to you.
Cheers !
This is a life altering career, that will more then likely change your perspective on everything so far in life. Just make sure you want to make that change. Wait a year or 2 if you want, and then come back and re-do the testing to be sure. In the end it's up to you.
Cheers !
If your not 100% behind your decision to join and put 110% into training you WILL FAIL, sorry to tell you that but its a fact. It sounds like the only reason you are wanting to stay is because of your girlfriend but like Ty said dont let anyone ever tell you you cant go or make you choose because that is not rite. You relly need to think about it first.
Tom
P.S dont write in txt language, the mods and admin do not like it and you'll put people off helping you in the future.
Tom
P.S dont write in txt language, the mods and admin do not like it and you'll put people off helping you in the future.
Re: confused!
1878fawdry wrote:im currently menna be joining rt on 10thseptember and im got to the point wer i feel that i dont wanna just go jst yet, but i dunno wat to do im like 50/ 50 i wanna go asum days then other days i dont.
Am 18 and my gf is main reason if for stayin plus ive just passed my drivin test but i fink its a stupid reasons. or its just not tht im ready for im goin to face coz if i go and it gets tuff n im missin ome ill jst leave thts wat my afco sed most ppl do yesterday. they also recommended that i put it off for a couple of months till i m likee yerrr i really want this
i am coonsiderin joinin the reserves instead but is it possible to transfer over to the regulars?
any1 who can relate to this it would be much appreciated
Mate, I ditched mine and trust me u got plenty more fish in the sea and u will belong to something which not many belong to. Definatly go for it, its great.
THinking about leaving already!
as harsh as it sounds mate everyone is correct about the girlfriend. I moved from new zealand and left mine of 3 years to do this and trust me that wasnt easy. But in the end of the day I knew this is something I really want to do and have to do.
The bottom line and thing you need to ask yourself mate is this:
If you dont do it do you think you'll regret it and for how long? for the rest of your life?
If you leave your gf you may regret it, but how long will it take you to get over a girl compared to a dream?
Just a few things that helped me along the way.
Cheers
The bottom line and thing you need to ask yourself mate is this:
If you dont do it do you think you'll regret it and for how long? for the rest of your life?
If you leave your gf you may regret it, but how long will it take you to get over a girl compared to a dream?
Just a few things that helped me along the way.
Cheers
'Peace is to important to be left to politicians'
At least give RT a go and see how you feel for the first two weeks. You may end up loving or hating it so then you can decide if you're still having trouble now.
If you hate RT you can quit thinking "Okay I gave it a go, it wasn't for me." Or it maybe "Hey, I like this and I think I'll stay."
If you don't go you'll be thinking when times get hard about what life would've been like if you had gone to RT.
Just give it your best shot and see what happens.
If you hate RT you can quit thinking "Okay I gave it a go, it wasn't for me." Or it maybe "Hey, I like this and I think I'll stay."
If you don't go you'll be thinking when times get hard about what life would've been like if you had gone to RT.
Just give it your best shot and see what happens.
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You've got to have problems if you liek foundation. lolfogarty wrote:At least give RT a go and see how you feel for the first two weeks. You may end up loving or hating it so then you can decide if you're still having trouble now.
If you hate RT you can quit thinking "Okay I gave it a go, it wasn't for me." Or it maybe "Hey, I like this and I think I'll stay."
If you don't go you'll be thinking when times get hard about what life would've been like if you had gone to RT.
Just give it your best shot and see what happens.
THinking about leaving already!
