
i'm 19 years old and just finishing my a-levels. I don't want to go to uni coz the whole education thing is really beginning to do my head in!
i've always wanted to join the army, but now the time has come to seriously consider it.
however, i can't decide whether or not to try as an officer or as a private.
Here are some of my problems:

OFFICER - great chance to really prove ones self, to gain maximium respect from friends, family and collegues, and to be apart of a strong leading team. To be able to lead teams into battle, to act as a guide and support for other units, and of course............, the officers mess
SOLDIER - A chance to really get your hands dirty, to make friends for life, to work your way up through ranks, and to be apart of a team. To gain maximum respect for going into any situation and really being able to test myself.
So, i'm stuck.. please help,
I know i may be really naive in the statements above, and you've probably never read a thread so long with so may spelling mistakes, but i hope somebody out there can understand my problem

Which one is it to be?