I only speak from experience Ben - I like to think that I'm open minded and not prejudiced. Have you never wondered why no officers post on this forum (I only remember one - some time ago)? (excuse the double negative) I don't know why they don't but it doesn't surprise me at all in the same way that the dismissive review of Simon's book by the Corps 'expert' in PTSD didn't surprise me. I hope you don't mind but I'd prefer to leave it at that. I still feel a great deal of loyalty to the Corps and don't want to be pressed on it by (with the greatest respect - it's only a matter of time after all) an outsider and in public.
Maverick, I now earn five times what I did when I left the Corps but, I've said it before and will say it again, if I didn't have a family and was a bit younger, I'd go back in tomorrow (as a mne S3)! I had great mates and a bit of beer money and wanted for nothing in the Corps - until I got a mortgage

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I've posted this before but it deserves a second airing:
"In our compulsive consumer orientated society, which is fast losing its direction, becoming fat and pot bellied, where discipline is scorned and the scramble for wealth is foremost in the minds of our youth, the green beret of the Royal Marines Commando stands alone as being a rare pearl of great price.
It is a symbol of excellence, dedication and professionalism, an accolade for those who push themselves beyond the limit of normal human endurance.
In an age when standards are crumbling, the Green Beret is as British as the Union Jack, for it represents true grit and dogged individual determination.
The Green Beret is not for sale, thousands have sought to attain it, but along the way many have wilted and failed. It is a classless symbol of fortitude and achievement."
Good luck to both of you.
John Robert Young - 1991 - (forget the name of the book)