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JoJo, some of us carry a listeners badge and we do listen to people with gen problems, and whilst being necky in speaking for all of us, we do take the role seriously and welcome all who have problems. Theres even some without the badge who should have it as they also get involved and help people out too.
The forums were a great help to me when I was dribbling and found the chuckle brothers funny, to me to you to me.
BUT............read young Werners posts, then you will see more clearly. In my opinion he farked up with the paintballing pics and then he got all emotional and dripped on about his issues.
If he has them then I wish him all the luck in the world and a long and fruitful life once he's sorted. But I have an idea that its all smoke, so hence he got short change from me.
If he PMs me I will listen in confidence (hear that Werner a lifeline) but he needs to remind himself of the forum he posted all this on, and then wonder why he got some stick.
Werner if your there we are worried about you so let us know your breathing. Never know he may have taken a head shot from a crayola paint set and has been casevac'd to a trauma unit.
The forums were a great help to me when I was dribbling and found the chuckle brothers funny, to me to you to me.
BUT............read young Werners posts, then you will see more clearly. In my opinion he farked up with the paintballing pics and then he got all emotional and dripped on about his issues.
If he has them then I wish him all the luck in the world and a long and fruitful life once he's sorted. But I have an idea that its all smoke, so hence he got short change from me.
If he PMs me I will listen in confidence (hear that Werner a lifeline) but he needs to remind himself of the forum he posted all this on, and then wonder why he got some stick.
Werner if your there we are worried about you so let us know your breathing. Never know he may have taken a head shot from a crayola paint set and has been casevac'd to a trauma unit.
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Doc, you being necky, im not having that .
JoJo, Doc is right about yourng werner, he caused a bit of grief and took the backlash but that doesnt mean he gets hung out to dry. Like Doc said there are listeners on here who are willing to help but he has to get in touch for this to happen. My concern is that he hasnt been on recently and that wont be because of what happened on here, but what was going on in his personal life at the time. Being the softy i am, i do worry as does other members despite giving the banter they do. So werner if you are sitting back watching then either PM one of us to let us know things are tickety boo.
JoJo, Doc is right about yourng werner, he caused a bit of grief and took the backlash but that doesnt mean he gets hung out to dry. Like Doc said there are listeners on here who are willing to help but he has to get in touch for this to happen. My concern is that he hasnt been on recently and that wont be because of what happened on here, but what was going on in his personal life at the time. Being the softy i am, i do worry as does other members despite giving the banter they do. So werner if you are sitting back watching then either PM one of us to let us know things are tickety boo.
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I always take it as no smoke with out fire. Lies some how are linked to a truth.
Take legends and myths, something started them off right? I know it sounds off topic but think of it in a situation with a person. Sometimes they lie to cover up something bigger, right?
I, for the past 2yrs now have been getting over something that I went through. I couldn't come on line and blag it to the world, but it was hard and I was helped. Only after I wanted to be helped though. I am good on listening, I mean who better to talk to than some one who has been in the poo already. But that depends on the person you are.
I hid behind sarcasim and jokes. But I learnt that you can not be helped unless you want help, no matter how hard people try.
What knocks you donw makes you stronger!!!!!!! But you should never be alone in hard times, people must have friends or some one to lean on to survive. The whole "I'm good on my own" doesn't really work in the long run.
Take legends and myths, something started them off right? I know it sounds off topic but think of it in a situation with a person. Sometimes they lie to cover up something bigger, right?
I, for the past 2yrs now have been getting over something that I went through. I couldn't come on line and blag it to the world, but it was hard and I was helped. Only after I wanted to be helped though. I am good on listening, I mean who better to talk to than some one who has been in the poo already. But that depends on the person you are.
I hid behind sarcasim and jokes. But I learnt that you can not be helped unless you want help, no matter how hard people try.
What knocks you donw makes you stronger!!!!!!! But you should never be alone in hard times, people must have friends or some one to lean on to survive. The whole "I'm good on my own" doesn't really work in the long run.
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I agree in part JoJo, and what I write next isnt in relation to young Werner.
But we do get the odd Troll. Someone who browses other sites to pick up on the buzz words and "create" a false past then come on here and draw people who are helpful into their fantasy. No denying thses people arent right, but they are playing a game and using peoples pasts and emotions to live a lie. Its upsetting and its happened to me and I got thredders to say the least.
We take everything as Gen until proved otherwise, but sometimes as humans do we get it wrong and then are the first to stand up and admit it.
I believ the listeners and other members have helped more than made mistakes by a huge margin and I for one will never turn anyone away. Like I said alot of members were here for me, and I will be there for them, and anyone else who needs support.
So JoJo if you need a ear to bend PM me, dont stay out in the cold alone.
Werner just rang alarm bells, which make me cautious but not shut off to him.
But we do get the odd Troll. Someone who browses other sites to pick up on the buzz words and "create" a false past then come on here and draw people who are helpful into their fantasy. No denying thses people arent right, but they are playing a game and using peoples pasts and emotions to live a lie. Its upsetting and its happened to me and I got thredders to say the least.
We take everything as Gen until proved otherwise, but sometimes as humans do we get it wrong and then are the first to stand up and admit it.
I believ the listeners and other members have helped more than made mistakes by a huge margin and I for one will never turn anyone away. Like I said alot of members were here for me, and I will be there for them, and anyone else who needs support.
So JoJo if you need a ear to bend PM me, dont stay out in the cold alone.
Werner just rang alarm bells, which make me cautious but not shut off to him.
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Doc, I agree with you. Some people will attention seek to get that sympathy vote. I am not one of these people, I like to hide in a corner.
Ok so I do draw attention to my self and replaying the sound of music in the centre of town was my idea! And I must say, a one woman show and it was great!
I'll bend your ear any time doc, I like a good old natter!
Ok so I do draw attention to my self and replaying the sound of music in the centre of town was my idea! And I must say, a one woman show and it was great!
I'll bend your ear any time doc, I like a good old natter!
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Hello everyone
Havent been on in a while and i thought ide pop in and read up
To be honest I cant realy believe I moaned so much, At this point on I find myself so lucky Ive got these problem's than anything worse and am gratefull.
From last point, Ive been getting my future sorted, Seem's my dad was involved in illegal activities and Ive been staying at my aunt's in the meantime, While thing's cooled down, Social worker's didnt real do jack just told me it's normal in the Asian family life, At the time it was just the step mother working up trouble (Money problem's)
Thank's for the advice everyone, Im taking it all in and should have a long time ago, Right rant over
Sorry everyone
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Havent been on in a while and i thought ide pop in and read up
To be honest I cant realy believe I moaned so much, At this point on I find myself so lucky Ive got these problem's than anything worse and am gratefull.
From last point, Ive been getting my future sorted, Seem's my dad was involved in illegal activities and Ive been staying at my aunt's in the meantime, While thing's cooled down, Social worker's didnt real do jack just told me it's normal in the Asian family life, At the time it was just the step mother working up trouble (Money problem's)
Thank's for the advice everyone, Im taking it all in and should have a long time ago, Right rant over
Sorry everyone
Werner
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Werner,
Why do you spill all of this on here? What exactly are you looking for?
No offence
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Why do you spill all of this on here? What exactly are you looking for?
No offence
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Attentin seeker my arse
Just filling in what has happened in the time being, So that noone think's ive done nothing, If so ill just keep myself quiet and pretend im doing nothing
The illegal activities was reported to an old chief of police friend she knew back then, She was once in the conservative party at one time (Anne carrol if anyone knew her)
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Just filling in what has happened in the time being, So that noone think's ive done nothing, If so ill just keep myself quiet and pretend im doing nothing
The illegal activities was reported to an old chief of police friend she knew back then, She was once in the conservative party at one time (Anne carrol if anyone knew her)
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huh
Thinking of PERSEC, would that be good to post names with accusations when people are not here to defend?
No offence again but its like talking behind some ones back
I have no problem with people airing their problems but there is a fine line.
No offence again but its like talking behind some ones back
I have no problem with people airing their problems but there is a fine line.
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Just f@#k off and take your useless arse away and have it sorted by some one who really gives a flying f@#k!
This is a forum for people who served, are serving or want to serve. It ain't for silly little twats like you to sound of about your, truth be told pointless farking problems.
Just wait until you Bollox drop. Then you can get away with wearing Berets that have to be earned (unless a real Para or a real Royal Marines Commando catches you wearing them in which case put your head between you knees and kiss you useless arse goodbye!)
Because frankly Losers like you Piss me off bigtime!!! f@#k off and get a life you sad little git!!!!!!
Just f@#k off and take your useless arse away and have it sorted by some one who really gives a flying f@#k!
This is a forum for people who served, are serving or want to serve. It ain't for silly little twats like you to sound of about your, truth be told pointless farking problems.
Just wait until you Bollox drop. Then you can get away with wearing Berets that have to be earned (unless a real Para or a real Royal Marines Commando catches you wearing them in which case put your head between you knees and kiss you useless arse goodbye!)
Because frankly Losers like you Piss me off bigtime!!! f@#k off and get a life you sad little git!!!!!!
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Werner ..... check your PMs over the next day or two.
Don't forget, chaps, that if this laddie is for real (and I am very well placed to establish this beyond all doubt, being a Mankychester teacher who knows his supposed school very well) he is still very young and green behind the gills ...... as we all once were.
And you can be a very, very scary lot..... as I know from first hand experience
Werner ..... expect a grilling.
Jayne x
Don't forget, chaps, that if this laddie is for real (and I am very well placed to establish this beyond all doubt, being a Mankychester teacher who knows his supposed school very well) he is still very young and green behind the gills ...... as we all once were.
And you can be a very, very scary lot..... as I know from first hand experience
Werner ..... expect a grilling.
Jayne x
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