If you want to read about women in combat situations and such-like try this book -
Muir, Kate. Arms and the Woman. London, Sinclair-Stevenson, 1992.
Book call no.: 355.0082 M953a
It details quite a few things in it like how the Canadians opened up an Infantry course for women and only one passed (and she was a lumberjack before joining

)
How the Israelis had numerous problems with their men trying to help/aid women on the battlefield.
How there were women who came home in bodybags. Bullets and shells don't know where the frontline ends and secondline begins
I admit to enjoying the time I spent as an attached arms soldier with the paras. I took part in all the activities that the lads did apart from parachuting. I've done live fire exercises, tabs, patrols - I've been cold, wet and miserable, just like the lads. I have done most jobs from chief cook and bottle washer to bayonet. I haven't always been good at the things I've done. In most cases the only thing that kept me going was my god damn bloody mindedness. I would not be the first to quit. Someone would always quit before me.
I would not demean the SF by trying to become a part of it. It was hard enough day to day on exercise trying to go to the toilet without shitting into a plastic bag (unless you are really into that).
Women have achieved much in the military and I am proud to have been part of it.
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