family life and army

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hi im 24 coming up 25 and have always wanted to join army i have two young girls aged 3 and 18months at first my partner said he supported me and ive done application up to docs medical and barb which i passed but now his saying stuff like i`ll do this and that if u dont go ahead no more (i could handle that and brush it off) but 2day he crossed the line and has said i have to choose army life or kids (i love my girls sooooo much) but i also wanna join army

any help much appreciated