Thanks Hyperlithe, that is some good advice, I will definitely take that one board. I like writing letters so that will work nicely for me.

Thanks again

Thanks Sisyhus, I really value your input

Hi Hyperlithe, thanks for your reply, that is pretty sound advice. I guess we won't know what to do until it happens.
I don't want to make too much of a fuss, but at the same time I need her to know that I'm 100% with her.

Just stupid stuff really, like how often should I call and write etc that ...

Thank you Tab. You're right that is something I am going to have to deal with.

To be honest I know that statistically she is much lower risk and that does give some reassurance.

What I am more concerned about is the effect that it will have on our lives. Of course this is a life chaning experience ...

Hello everyone I'm Sebastian from Wiltshire.
I like your website, I really hope you guys would be able to help me out.

I originally posted this on a different part of the forum, but I don't think it gets much traffic so I hope you don't mind me posting it here as well.

My girlfriend of some 4 ...

Hello, I hope I am posting this in the right place, I am really looking for some practical advice.

My girlfriend of some 4 years has just been accepted to join the Army as an officer.
She has no degree or anything but she trained really hard for it and put in loads of study and got accepted.
I have ...