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[sublime_envy]

wondering if you guys can help me. I'm doing my flying training in prep for having a go at FJ in the RAF. My fiance is rmc going SBS. Everyone has warned us against inter-forces relationships and we are both having to consider our careers at the moment which we don't want to do. We don't want to stand in the way of each others ambitions. I don't like the idea of never living together and not having a family. Does anyone think or has anyone heard of this working? the rmc and the raf have talked to both of us and are very against letting either of us go. Fiance handed his chit in just now though he hates the idea of leaving. Any advice? Also, any ideas of how often we would actually see each other?