But where's that line? That's the problem. Just as an example: in our troop there was one lad who was a complete muppet. I have no idea how he passed his PRMC in the first place. He was always the one at the back in any kind of phys, he was always the last one out the grot after you've been given all of a minute to change rigs, etc etc. Always one of the ones the rest of the troop ends up getting thrashed for. He had two NDs, one with live rounds on the range, firing on automatic instead of repeat (no I'm not talking about the other lad who've I mentioned before on here who did it), and got thrown off two shoots on the range because he was bloody dangerous! He wasn't allowed to lob the live grenade either.
Now, firstly, I'll point out that both myself and the rest of the troop agreed with the actions of the training team in preventing him in taking part in some activities, he really needed a LOT of extra one-to-one training in some areas before he'd be safe with live weapons with limited supervision (one safety staff to every 6 firers or whatever it is). That wasn't punishment, that was safety.
Because of all the above, he got a lot of stick from everyone, and was punished by the training team far more regularly than the rest of us - no worse punishments, not for different things, he just got more of them! At first guys tried to get round him and get him squared away, but he took the attitude that we were being condescending or whatever - he was a 26 yr old lad who worked in IT before the Corps, how could he be wrong? He constantly moaned that he was being bullied, has since been discharged as unsuitable for training, and last we heard was going to appeal on grounds of being bullied out or some such.
Would you class that as bullying? An outsider sure as hell would, he was constantly being punished for something. Of course everyone gets the piss ripped out of them for something or other by the rest of the troop and training team - for him it was always something to do with his performance, because it was invariably shite. So yes, anyone looking in would see it as bullying, but if you trained with him day in day out, you'd soon see none of it was unjustified in any way. Unfortunately in todays political and legal environment and cotton wool world, nobody seems to understand that some jobs require you to be a little tougher than others - show me an Iraqi that'll respect your human rights when captured.
"OK Lads. Get this right and you can all have Saturday off"
We would all get it right and end up working Saturday morning... bullying or mental cruelty or just the reality of training?
This is something we get a lot, mind games. Sometimes they stick to what they say, everyone digs out blind and you get what you're promised. The next time you'll put the same effort in, and still get punished/not rewarded. But again, that's life - they need people who aren't going to wrap just because things don't go they're way, mental toughness is as important to the Corps as physical, if not more so.
Just gonna go ease my finger cramps after all that...
