Gentlemen......

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It depends on the dinner as to what toasts are being done but as a general rule the Loyal Toast is first. The Navy (and RM) remain seated for the Loyal Toast as it was, legend has it, granted by King Charles II.

Ladies night in an RM mess would be something like:
Loyal Toast
The RN
The RM
The Ladies
Response from the ladies

Other stories about being seated are:

King Charles, on his return from exile in Holland, in May 1660 was aboard the Naseby, re-named Royal Charles. He is reputed to have bumped his head on a low beam in the cabin when responding to a toast. He is reputed to have exclaimed: “When I get ashore, I’ll see that my naval officers run no such risk, for I will allow them from henceforth to remain sitting when drinking my health.

The Navy had a large influx of gentlemen volunteers who formed a considerable mess. As they were not seamen by upbringing, they would have had great difficulty keeping their feet.

George IV: As Prince Regent, while dining aboard a warship is reputed to have exclaimed as the officers rose to drink the King’s health, “Gentlemen, pray be seated. Your loyalty is above suspicion.” The Prince was at constant variance with the King and favoured the Whig Opposition, but it is a matter of speculation as to whom their loyalty was directed. The Navy generally consider that loyalty to the person of the Sovereign takes precedence over political ties.

William IV: While he was Duke of Clarence, he was dining on a man-of-war and is also reputed to have bumped his head on a deck beam when he stood up.

It was impossible to stand upright “between decks” except between the beams, so consequently only every third person would have been unable to stand erect.

The table was often fixed to the deck against a settee, so it would have been impossible for half the officers to stand with any degree of dignity.

Officers of the Royal Yacht also stand as a distinction of the honour serving on the Yacht.

In 1966, the Queen extended the privilege to Chief and Petty Officers of the Royal Navy.

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Cheers Stix, I had heard the one about bumping your head.
Where would HN come into it then, and I don't mean Hostage Negoiator

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^^^^^^
Had me worried for a mo.............