Thanks Dawber...I do care about him a lot and at the end of the day I would rather see him happy than anything else. Not over yet though - he also applied to join the RAF last year and passed their medical and interviews but never re-applied for selection because he got the army dates through - when...

He didn't get in!!! Failed the lung test, he had asthma as a child and had too much scar tissue. Part of me is relieved that he will be sticking around - is that bad? But the other part of me is gutted for him, he has worked so hard and waited so long for this and it sucks that it hasn't paid off th...

Well after the snow meant my friend's last selection date was cancelled, he is on his way there again right now. He will have his tests and stuff today and tomorrow, with his interview tomorrow afternoon, and will know by tomorrow evening one way or the other if he is in the army. I spoke to him thi...

Thank you for your reply. First of all I would like to say sorry to all of you on here, I don't know the right language for all of this but I hope people understand roughly what I am talking about and will forgive me if I ask what seem like stupid questions! When I posted my message he was due to go...

Hi, I am new to the forum but have just read through some of the posts and you seem like a friendly and supportive group so I thought I would see if you can put any of my worries to rest or at least give me some advice on how to handle this. Their is a lot of information on here for partners and fam...