For the wrong reasons
Posted: Sat 19 Aug, 2006 11:00 am
Hi there, I was hoping someone could give me a bit of advice and a few facts.
Here's the situation, my step son who is 16, just out of school and trying to figure out what to do with his life has decided he wants to join up with the RAF.
The problem is, he has, since being about 10, had his heart set on joining the Army (infantry), however he did his selection at Litchfield last week and failed, he came back with the point of view 'I cant understand why anyone would join the army, they are all robots and treat you terribly'
I don't know the exact reasons why he failed, hes not talking about it, I only know he has failed the run, he didn't do it in time.
He has returned home and him mum has recommended he joins the RAF as its a far easier option, somehow I cant imagine this is true.
They live in Coningsby and have a RAF base just minutes from their door, he likes the idea that he can work there through the day and go home at night so life wont change too much, will it work out this way? surely he will be allocated where he is needed? not automatically to the base close to home?
He doesn't want to be a pilot or a gunner (sorry I really don't know much about the options involved) he says he wants to be a linesman? he says for this job he wont need to do any major physical training, is this correct?
It seems to me he is trying to get into one of the military forces, without the hard work and determination he has learned that he would need, to get into the army.
He says the RAF are not so strict, he will get lots more free time and better money without having to go through the vigorous training required for the army.
My view is that he is planning to join up for all of the wrong reasons and that he just hasnt got all of the facts.
I was wondering if anyone could tell me what is ACTUALLY involved in him joining up, what will be expected of him? will he indeed have to do the physical training? how does the selection compare with what he has already experienced with the army? what is involved in the written entrance exam? is it as simple as he is telling me it is? I am of the belief that the discipline and dedication involved will be just as high standard as the army, is this right?
Could you give me a few harsh facts to arm myself with, to allow me to put his feet firmly back on the ground before he wastes ours, his and the RAFs time.
Thankyou so much for reading this rather long post and thanks for any advice you can offer.
A concerned parent.
Here's the situation, my step son who is 16, just out of school and trying to figure out what to do with his life has decided he wants to join up with the RAF.
The problem is, he has, since being about 10, had his heart set on joining the Army (infantry), however he did his selection at Litchfield last week and failed, he came back with the point of view 'I cant understand why anyone would join the army, they are all robots and treat you terribly'
I don't know the exact reasons why he failed, hes not talking about it, I only know he has failed the run, he didn't do it in time.
He has returned home and him mum has recommended he joins the RAF as its a far easier option, somehow I cant imagine this is true.
They live in Coningsby and have a RAF base just minutes from their door, he likes the idea that he can work there through the day and go home at night so life wont change too much, will it work out this way? surely he will be allocated where he is needed? not automatically to the base close to home?
He doesn't want to be a pilot or a gunner (sorry I really don't know much about the options involved) he says he wants to be a linesman? he says for this job he wont need to do any major physical training, is this correct?
It seems to me he is trying to get into one of the military forces, without the hard work and determination he has learned that he would need, to get into the army.
He says the RAF are not so strict, he will get lots more free time and better money without having to go through the vigorous training required for the army.
My view is that he is planning to join up for all of the wrong reasons and that he just hasnt got all of the facts.
I was wondering if anyone could tell me what is ACTUALLY involved in him joining up, what will be expected of him? will he indeed have to do the physical training? how does the selection compare with what he has already experienced with the army? what is involved in the written entrance exam? is it as simple as he is telling me it is? I am of the belief that the discipline and dedication involved will be just as high standard as the army, is this right?
Could you give me a few harsh facts to arm myself with, to allow me to put his feet firmly back on the ground before he wastes ours, his and the RAFs time.
Thankyou so much for reading this rather long post and thanks for any advice you can offer.
A concerned parent.