English Rose here but forgotten my password.

I've just been told about this and I'm deeply saddened. Paul was a lovely, lovely man who was very supportive to me for many years and became a dear friend. Such a shame. Sleep well, Paul and much love to his family xx

Sara x

Hiya, My advice would be to speak to your boss first before going to Welfare. I can't really see a welfare issue in your case, to be honest. I know that's not what you want to hear, sorry :( Being so new in the army would be a disadvantage on being sent home I would imagine as being away from home i...