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Hello everyone, I would like to say thanks in advance for any helpful comments on the topic, You guys/gals don't know how much this means to me



Basically my two closest friends have joined the forces, There both Royal Engineers, I had planned to join also, Until... I met a girl.. Stopped training, And started being a father to her child, So basically.. Its been a year i love her child with all my heart, Shes talking now and calls me "DAA".. As for me and her mother, Where nearing the end of our relationship and we both know it.. I had planned to move out of my mothers (who has no more room for me in the house as she is pregnant at the minute)


Now heres the problem... I want to start training agian.. And try get into the army, I will miss my girlfriends child more than my girlfriend.. We havnt split up yet, Althought we are getting there...

Do you think i should leave it a few months before trying to train and concentrate on joining? Or try get away from all this madness a.s.a.p (which would be my choice)

Basically i have nowhere to live.. Hardly any close friends, And soon to have no girlfriend.. I always wanted to join and get away and see more than Northern Ireland

Is this my chance?

What do you all think...

Thanks Mick

MickMannis wrote:Get on with things... And forget you ever met her...

Simple

Good luck with everything mate


Mick

Ring a bell?

You can live YOUR life, or just get by on maybes and what ifs.

Make your mind up about just what you want from life and get on with it. You wont get far in life if you can do is ask the questions on here as you will get so many answers you will be none the wiser at the end of it. Your life and what you make of it is in your hands, and your hands alone, so get on with it

Basically i have nowhere to live.. Hardly any close friends, And soon to have no girlfriend..

The perfect solution is staring you in the face

Thanks for the replys..

I pretty much made my decision, Just wanted to know what peoples opinions where...

Thank you

Mick

I would just like to say, IT'S YOUR LIFE, what other people think does not matter just get on with It.